Monday, October 20, 2008

What is love


Asalamu alikum


since one year and 4 months I got married to my sweetheart Hussien.He his my twin soul,my friend,my dad _sometimes_,simply he is everything.
So what Reem! you didn't make this post to say you love ur hubby! sure not..



What I wanted to share here is what made this relationship so special that we miss each other during work hours although we just left home 7 hours ago only and we call couple of times through work hours and we are not so newly married so that u would think that's why they miss each other(but don't want envy w kalam menda..ya nas ya shar kefaya 2ar)



Sure we fight (fights for marriage are just like salt and pepper for food) but we set rules during engagement period and we are sticking to it.



1)Qur'an and sunnah are the only references we refer to when we disagree or fight,so the one who is the faulty won't object on the rules stated in them...




ًwhen god and his prophet peace be upon him state a rule no mum'men or mu'mena should have their own point of view

so simply problems got solved alhamdulilah.




2) Whenever someone is upset from the other (happens allot u sure know it if u r married)
it doesn't mean he doesn't talk to the other or change the normal daily habits used to be done




also no way to sleep at night without making the other smile and say sorry even if the one who starts is not the faulty. (magical move walahi)




3)No third party involved in our life.




4)Enjoy ur spouse's good personal traits and stop recalling the bad ones coz u have some too.



5)All the way forgive.



Love is not nice romantic words or fancy gifts and red roses (although I enjoy them hehe) It's the ability to give ..alhamdulilah I have u Hussien ..alhamdulilah

balash hassad allah yekremko , el3een sabetny w rab el3arsh nagany

1 comment:

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